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Dating safely

Most people you meet are exactly who they say. These habits protect you from the few who aren’t.

Report romance scams to Police Scotland

If you think you have been the victim of fraud in Scotland, contact Police Scotland on 101, or call 999 if you are in danger. You can also report anonymously to Crimestoppers on 0800 555 111.

Source: Police Scotland: Man sentenced for romance fraud and embezzlement in Glasgow

Never send money to someone you have not met

Romance fraudsters build trust fast, avoid video calls and then ask for money for an emergency, travel or an investment. Never send money, crypto or gift cards to someone you have only met online. Report Fraud covers England, Wales and Northern Ireland; in Scotland, call Police Scotland on 101.

Source: Report Fraud: Romance fraud costs UK victims 102 million

Tell a friend your route on a walk date

Highland paths can be narrow, steep-sided and far from phone signal, like the Nevis Gorge path to Steall Falls. Tell a friend where you are going and when you expect to be back, and turn round if the weather or the river looks wrong.

Source: Ben-Nevis.com: Nevis Gorge and Steall Falls

Further readingOur sister site Smooch explains how romance fraud works and how to report a romance scam in the UK. WhichDating, our sister review site, explains the signs of a dating scammer.

Date ideas, meeting places and travel tips for a region where a second date might mean a long drive and a ferry.

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